Big Love Fits in Small Spaces.

The Vow Room exists for the dreamers, the rebels, and the intentionalists who believe that the size of the guest list doesn’t measure the depth of a vow.

We aren’t here to follow the "big wedding" script. We’re here to rewrite it.

For too long, the wedding industry has told couples they have to choose between a sterile courthouse hallway or a bloated, high-stress production. We think that’s a false choice. You deserve a space that is as curated as a boutique hotel and as intimate as a secret shared between best friends.

We champion weddings without the weight.

Whether you are eloping on a whim, celebrating a "grounded legacy" with your inner circle, or throwing a middle finger to tradition, we’ve built a sanctuary for you. Our walls are historic, our design is intentional, and our mission is simple: to provide a high aesthetic, low-stress refuge where your love is the only thing in focus.

No performance. No filler. No expectations.

Just you, your person, and a space designed to make the small moments feel massive.

Welcome to the evolution of the elopement.Welcome to The Vow Room.

The historic Leland Hotel building. Downtown Spokane.

The Vow Room lives inside the historic Leland Hotel, a brick landmark built in 1907 during Spokane’s wildest era of growth.

Constructed by Eugene B. Hyde, Spokane’s first police chief and a pioneer who helped build this city from the ground up, the Leland wasn't built for the elite. It was a "Single Room Occupancy" hotel. It was a foundational space designed for the people, a place where residents found a home right in the heart of the downtown core.

When we found the ground floor, it was a forgotten warehouse filled with dust and spiderwebs. But what we saw was an aisle, a natural altar area, and a sanctuary.

Today, the Leland Hotel is no longer just a place to stay. It’s a place to begin.

A century ago, this building supported the people who built Spokane. Today, it’s where you build your future.

Interior of a building under construction with unfinished walls, exposed insulation, a large window at the end, and construction materials on the floor.

Meet the founder

Jade Leonetti

Jade didn’t set out to join the wedding industry; she set out to be of service to her community. After a career spent in the trenches of the New York and LA film scenes, managing the Brooklyn Film Festival, and navigating high-level nonprofit fundraising, she returned home to Spokane in 2022 with a specific mission: to use her skills to make her hometown a better place to live and love.

In 2024, Jade married a friend from high school at the county courthouse. That day confirmed a gut feeling she’d had for years: getting married doesn’t have to mean a 200-person guest list, a mountain of debt, or a performance for everyone else.

She founded The Vow Room to disrupt the "big wedding" machine. By bridging the gap between "spontaneous" and "stylized," Jade has created a sanctuary for couples who want an elevated experience without the traditional pressure.

This isn't just a venue; it’s an investment in Spokane’s creative fabric. Jade is here to prove that you can have a "classic and classy" wedding on your own terms, no performance, no fluff, just big love.

Chief Elopement Officer

Marta & Andrew (Photo by Brooke Duclos)

“We got married today and the only thing that could have made it better was if we could slow time! We arrived to the venue to find our family and friends waiting for us. The venue was gorgeously lit, and the staff did an amazing job to ensure that no one peeked while I entered the venue or moved from the front door to the getting-ready room, and Jade was on top of the music to keep the vibe fun and sentimental. The ceremony reading was incredibly sweet and thoughtful. We were also surprised with a delicious heart-shaped cake! Our wedding greatly exceeded our expectations, and we’re very happy that we chose to have our elopement at The Vow Room. All we had to do was pick the date and time, answer a few questions to make it personal, and then show up ready to be married!”