✨Madam Twirl
Meet Madam Twirl, our resident officiant ✨
Madam Twirl is a ceremony artist and celebration designer who believes every milestone deserves intention, joy, and a little bit of magic. With roots in hospitality and a lifelong love of gathering people, she has built a practice around crafting “My Merriment™” ceremonies, personalized moments that honor everything from weddings and graduations to big life transitions and brave new beginnings.
At The Vow Room, she brings her signature twirl to each ceremony, blending warmth, humor, and ritual to make guests feel genuinely seen and celebrated. Whether you’re saying “I do,” toasting a hard-won degree, or marking a turning point in your life, Madam Twirl helps turn your story into an unforgettable, heart-centered experience.
I DO Wisdom: Madam Twirl's Helpful Guide to Wedding Planning
Why We Love Madam Twirl and Why You Should Read Her Book
Madam Twirl isn’t just an officiant; she’s someone who has lived and breathed celebrations for decades. Before joining us at The Vow Room, she owned and operated a wedding and event venue where she personally guided every single ceremony from start to finish. She logged over half a million steps (yes, literally miles) showing up early, staying late, and tending to every detail so her couples and their families felt seen, supported, and celebrated.
After retiring from running events on the ground, she poured her lifetime of wisdom into guiding couples from what she calls “the commentator’s desk.” Her book is the culmination of planning and hosting over 800 weddings, events, and celebrations, a career’s worth of insight on what actually matters, what creates joy, and how to craft a day that feels intentional rather than pressured or performative.
At The Vow Room, we recommend her book because it’s rooted in the same values we hold close:
celebrate intentionally, prioritize what matters, and create moments that reflect your real love story, not a checklist.
Her philosophy is simple but profound:
”You don’t need a big budget to have a beautiful experience; you only need intention.”
Ceremonies & Offerings
by Madam Twirl
🪄 Signature Offering: My Merriment. Marry Yourself!
A ceremony of self-devotion, intention, and personal becoming
Base Price: $850, Up to 4 guests, 45 minutes
A guided experience designed for birthdays, reinventions, healing chapters, or any moment when you want to recommit to your highest self. Includes a preparation session, a personalized altar, custom self-vows, an intention-setting ritual, music, and refreshments.
Cord Cutting Ceremony
Release what no longer serves you & step into a new beginning
Base Price: $1,150, Up to 4 guests, 60 minutes
A ritual of release and renewal, perfect for breakups, old dynamics, grief, or transitions. Includes a preparation session, cleansing altar, guided ritual, personalized intentions, music, and refreshments.
Team Building Ceremony
For teams seeking grounding, connection, and shared purpose
Base Price: $1,650, Up to 12 participants, 60–90 minutes
An intentional group experience rooted in clarity and collective alignment. Includes a prep session with the team lead, a guided ceremony, altar or central installation, reflection prompts, intention setting, music, and beverages.
Graduation Ceremony (Including Sober Anniversaries)
A heartfelt honoring of resilience, accomplishment, and growth
Base Price: $975, Up to 4 guests, 60 minutes
A space to honor personal milestones, sobriety anniversaries, completed goals, birthdays, transformational seasons, or educational achievements. Includes a preparation session, reflective ritual, styled altar, personalized intentions, music, and refreshments.
Elopement Ceremonies at The Vow Room
Available by request
In addition to her transformative ritual work, Madam Twirl is also available to officiate wedding and elopement ceremonies at The Vow Room. Her style is warm, personal, grounded, and deeply celebratory, perfect for couples who want an intimate ceremony filled with intention.
How to Book Madam Twirl
Any of Madam Twirl’s ceremonies can be added to your Vow Room booking.
She also offers customizations, optional ritual kits, and extended time when needed.
Please email info@thevowroom.com for booking inquiries or schedule a tour with us